When parents radiate positivity and strength, children will automatically have a healthy environment to learn and grow. Young minds are very impressionable. They very easily absorb the thoughts, feelings and energy of parents and elders around them. The wonderful thing this awareness can do is, that it can make you as a parent become mindful about the messages you are sending to your children’s subconscious mind. With this conscious awareness, you will raise your own vibration and be patient with your kids as you teach them these invaluable life lessons.
Challenges may come, but these life laws and principles that focus on improving one’s energy and vibration will help you to deal with situations in a manner that positively shapes your children’s minds, instilling in them self-belief and confidence that they are capable of achieving their dreams and worthy to attract the success they desire.
Here are some tips to get started-
1. Using Positive words:
Words have creative power. Whatever you speak has the potential to become a reality. Thus your words should be such that they inspire and encourage your kids, not hurt and humiliate them. Remember, your intentions are no good if your children feel unwanted and rejected. Words you speak repeatedly become beliefs that will shape the minds of your children.
Positive words will create positive thoughts, which in turn will generate positive vibrations. Speak to one other at home with love and respect. As you do this, you will see your children doing the same and growing up to be confident, intelligent adults who can think clearly and act very methodically.
Practice– Here is a fun way to instill the importance of positive words in children – Everyday give them one positive word to create sentences out of it. Whoever makes the maximum sentences in the home wins. For example if the word you give them is “beautiful”, let them use it as many times in as many sentences as possible. This will help them connect with the energy of the word and their subconscious mind will start getting more deeply involved and engaged with this word.
These words will program their mind positively and they will start radiating more joy and positivity.
2. Adopting the language of “I CAN DO IT”
As per the Manifestation laws, If you really want to Achieve something, you got to believe that You can. Doesn’t this suggest how important it is for kids to grow up believing that have unlimited potential to be, do and have what they want. Children should be taught about their minds, how their thoughts can turn into their reality. They should be encouraged to dream big.
Practice – As a family, together practice speaking the language of I CAN. Whenever any doubting thoughts come, remind yourself you have the power to achieve your dreams, mentally and verbally repeat, I CAN DO IT. Teach this mental game to children too. When done regularly, this exercise will keep them in a positive state of mind and attitude. It will help remove from their minds thoughts of self-doubt and fear.
How wonderful it would be to see our children feel empowered, strong and confident to pursue their dreams.
3. Connecting with one’s Feelings:
We all have our Emotional Guidance System that consists of our emotions – how good or bad we feel, in any moment. The emotions we experience and the feelings that we hold within us determine how each and every one of our life events and circumstances unfold.
When we feel good, we are always moving closer to the things we want. This is because we are moving in alignment with the Universe. The key to instill positivity in children is to become conscious of how you are feeling while also encouraging kids to also stay connected with their feelings.
Practice – A simple way to make children do this is to ask them how they are feeling. Make them draw a smiley with either a sad, angry, happy or excited face. Encourage them to share why they feel this way. If it’s a negative feeling, ask them how they would like to feel instead. Again, let them draw it with a smile. As they do this, they will start to feel better, for expressing your feelings in a non-judgmental environment is a great way to start releasing them altogether.
This will help kids realize that it’s okay to feel something but it is also important to shift your negative feelings and replace with a positive feeling they want to experience. The more they practice this, the more they will come to realize they are always in control of how they feel and all it would take for things to get better is their conscious decision to feel better!
To your Success
Dr Karishma Ahuja, PhD
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About Dr. Karishma Ahuja
Dr Karishma Ahuja is a leading Life coach and Inner child therapist with over 15 years of experience in training children and adults on mind power, helping them overcome weaknesses and developing Self belief and Confidence to pursue goals with joy and success. She is also the author of two popular self-help books, ‘The Healing Power of Gratitude’ and ‘The Healing Power of Words’.
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